03-12
2010

Filled under: Internet | Written by Damita

I wanted to talk about this topic “Are blogs too per­sonal?” for the last cou­ple of weeks and even more so after one of my clos­est friends closed down her blog due to the off-line world find­ing it. After going through my blog roll recently more and more blogs are becom­ing blogs writ­ten about a cer­tain topic, for exam­ple, mine nor­mally is being fru­gal and green which I think is a great idea and I love to see dif­fer­ent views but then again I like to see some per­sonal con­tent as well, what’s hap­pen­ing in their lives.

I started think­ing whether or not my blog is too per­sonal and I dis­cussed with my hus­band and my best friend yes­ter­day, I don’t really write like I use to about the going ons in my life well not the really per­sonal ones because unless it is out in the open then why put it on the inter­net where any­one can see it at the end of the day I know my blog is on the inter­net so it is pretty much pub­lic and yes I do go by a nick­name (same one for the last 10 years) but I now have twit­ter and a lot of my off-line friends have twit­ter now so they have access to my blog, plus if you know my nick­name you could pretty much just find me straight away.

I realised also I don’t think I have ever refer to my hus­band by his name in the whole three years of being with him which is pretty impres­sive as I for­get quite a bit that I haven’t unless I have added you to face­book then you know my own name and his name, he has read my blog now and then but isn’t really that inter­ested in it unless I am talk­ing about the money I have made from it :P   My par­ents know of my blog, I don’t think they really read it.

I really respect the ladies like Jenn and Amanda who don’t hide any­thing and for that rea­son read­ing their blogs makes me feel like I know them better.

Any­way I am ram­bling and I have to eat before my dri­ving les­son, I am curi­ous where do you draw the line on your own blogs?



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  1. By: Tara

    I think it depends on how much per­sonal you want the blog to be. While mine is “per­sonal” per se, it’s not exactly 100% per­sonal. I actu­ally am care­ful about what I post on there com­pared to my friends-locked LJ because of my job and its unique environment …

    Not to men­tion my dad reads my blog, so I am def­i­nitely not going to post up like my sex life or some­thing on there LOL.
    (Tara´s last blog ..Blo­gen­tial Angst)


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  2. I think this is very sub­jec­tive. I per­sonal fol­low the “If you wouldn’t say it in a crowded street, Don’t say it on the net” phi­los­o­phy. I will write about my life but I tend to omit names and places.

    I have seen them used to great effect in a more inti­mate way how­ever. My cousin (And she won’t mind me telling you this) blogged con­stantly through­out the preg­nancy, learn­ing of the com­pli­ca­tions and death of her daugh­ter, aged 30 hours.

    She was very open and drew a lot of com­fort from peo­ple com­ments all the way through. It also served a more prac­ti­cal pur­pose see­ing as she lives in Ams­ter­dam and her fam­ily are here in Eng­land. She, like you, how­ever always used nick­names just in case.

    Ulti­mately what you post on your blog is up to you. There is no fixed for­mat for one (Although orig­i­nally they where never intended to be per­sonal diary they are now). It’s a case of do what­ever you get the most out of.
    (Luke´s last blog ..Save Our Edu­ca­tion! #savesus­sex!)


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    1. By: Damita

      @ Luke, totally agree with you there about not say­ing it in a crowded street and I think that com­ments do bring great com­fort to peo­ple dur­ing hard times.

      @Tara ha ha yeah! I use to LJ as well, def agree about friends-locked regard­ing jobs :)


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  3. per­sonal blogs are all i read! i love to get a glimpse into some­one else’s life :) and its also what got me inter­ested in blog­ging in the first place. i can under­stand not want­ing to reveal impor­tant details about where you live or your name but oth­er­wise i say blog what you want to!
    (nimil´s last blog ..thoughts about col­lege)


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  4. By: Kristin

    I may be inclined to say yes. I don’t really want peo­ple in my offline life vis­it­ing my blog. Some know I have one, but that’s my place to talk about my life, the peo­ple in it, etc etc. Some things are very per­sonal to me, and it’s nice to be able to talk and debate with myself and oth­ers, that are a unbi­ased 3rd party.

    It really depends on how you write. Some peo­ple even have a few dif­fer­ent blogs, one is more per­sonal and pri­vate and the other is more gen­eral. Either way I still love hav­ing my blog. :)
    (Kristin´s last blog ..Get in or get out)


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